Realistically Optimistic

Nonfiction by Christi R. Suzanne

I stood on the Hawthorne Bridge overlooking the Willamette River and imagined my death. I felt the chill on my tear-streaked cheeks as the wind blew against them. The feeling of being suspended in time dulled my senses. I tried to call my boyfriend. No answer. Maybe next time he’ll answer. I called again. No answer. I left a message and hung up.

My next phone call was to my mom who, unlike my boyfriend, was waiting for my call. I knew it would not be an easy conversation. I watched the river ripple as the breeze lightly agitated the water. I dialed my mom’s work number and held my breath. As soon as she answered, I blurted out “I don’t really know how to say this, but I have thyroid cancer.” I heard a sharp intake of breath and she said, “What does that mean?” Which meant, “Are you going to die?” I said I didn’t know because the doctors still needed to tell me what type of thyroid cancer I had and whether or not it had spread to my lymph nodes.

My mom did not cry. I babbled on about how I should learn to be okay with dying, and that if I did die, I would need a will and thank goodness I didn’t have a husband to leave behind to take care of the kids that I also didn’t have. I let those thoughts run away with me and got off the phone to stare out at the river. I dialed my boyfriend again and got the same, no response. My chest felt like it needed to explode.

That night I had a conversation with my dad about my diagnosis. He told me he loved me. I’ve only heard this from my father a handful of times. We talked about how uncertain life is. The fact that a person is more likely to die in a car accident than from a plane crash did nothing for me. I had never entertained the thought that I might one day have cancer. That happened to unhealthy people. All I could think of was–when did I become a cancer patient? And how, at age thirty-one? It invaded my identity.

Talking about my possible death with someone thirty years older than me baffled me. My dad could talk about it though. My mother, on the other hand, could only get lost in the feeling that I was going to be okay, that I had to be okay. She was the optimist. Not that my dad was the pessimist; no, I think he was the realist. I teetered between the extremes. One moment I planned my next adventure, looking towards the future, and the next I had fallen off the bridge into a black hole.

The way this whole thing unraveled confused me; it was the first of a string of slow revelations. At a routine exam with my gynecologist, a slightly overweight man, checked my neck and felt a small bump on my thyroid. He said I should get an ultrasound, but he didn’t think it was anything to be worried about. For the first time in my medical history, I did not worry.

Two weeks later, in mid-September of 2009, I went to my ultrasound appointment. The waiting room was empty except for an elderly couple that sat a few seats away from me. The ultrasound tech told me her name was Portia. I had never met someone named Portia before.

Portia kept slathering gel on my neck. Soon it felt like twenty slugs had slowly slogged across it. After she had taken enough pictures the radiologist came in and I wiped away the slimy gel. The radiologist was tall and slender, his movements were awkward and I watched as he fiddled with the images on the computer screen only he could see. I said, “It seems like you found something.” Then, the radiologist told me that I had thyroid cancer, and they would have to perform a biopsy to get more detailed information, but he was certain I had cancer. Portia said, “If you have to get cancer, this is the best kind to get.” The radiologist nodded in agreement. The synapses in my brain felt like they were slowing down, and I wondered if Portia was waiting for me to give her a high-five because I was lucky enough to get the “best kind of cancer”.

During the next couple of months I found out that I had papillary thyroid cancer, in my thyroid and two of the three lymph nodes that were biopsied. This meant I needed surgery, a thyroidectomy. It lasted six and a half hours, during which my thyroid and all of the lymph nodes on the right side of my neck (fifteen of forty-two came back positive for cancer), were removed. I started taking thyroid medication on a daily basis; it regulates things like: the rate of metabolism, how quickly the body uses energy and calcium levels, and body temperature and weight. These were things I never thought about before being diagnosed.

After the surgery, instead of chemotherapy, I had radioactive iodine treatment (RAI) to remove any of the remaining disease. RAI targets thyroid cancer cells and kills them. It entails a special low iodine diet (includes no dairy, no soy, no sea salt, no sea products, and no fun) before taking the radioactive iodine pill. The diet depletes your body of iodine so that the radioactive iodine has a better chance of finding the cancer and killing it. The first week of the diet was the easiest. After that, the battle of food cravings and mental clarity was on, gladiator style.

People who get this treatment must be in isolation for two days and then semi-isolation for five more so as not to expose others to unwanted radiation. The RAI pill makes you radioactive. Since I lived in an apartment that shared walls with two other apartments, my endocrinologist set up a two-day hospital stay. I had a list of precautions for my radioactive state, such as making sure to flush the toilet two to three times after each use, washing my hands often, and taking at least two showers a day.

The walls and floor of my hospital room were covered in heavy paper or plastic. Everything was wrapped up–even the bed rails and the TV controller were wrapped. Any books or clothes I had brought with me to wear would be thrown in the toxic waste bin that sat next to my bed. I had a toxic waste bin by the side of my bed.

The nurse made sure that I understood I could not walk out of the room once I had taken my pill. I could call for assistance, but anyone who entered had to stay at least ten feet away from me. There was a time limit for how long someone could be around me and how close he/she could get to me. I didn’t think it would bother me, but after just a few hours, sitting in such a strangely sterile place, made me feel a little crazy.

The nurse gave me a hospital gown, but I brought a few pairs of pajamas and underwear that I could throw away. Once I got settled, someone from the nuclear medicine department wheeled in a cart that had a short steel tube on it. I felt like a character in Huxley’s A Brave New World, but I knew I was not about to take a soma pill.

The nuclear med. person opened a metal tube with tongs and revealed a plastic tube with two little blue encased pills in it. She used the tongs to pick up the plastic tube and dump the pills into a paper cup, next to it was another paper cup filled with water. At this point I felt like Alice from Alice in Wonderland. I hoped to shrink after swallowing the pills and be able to sneak out through a hole in the wall to a tea party with the Mad Hatter. The nuclear med. person told me she would be back later with a Geiger counter to see how radioactive I was. Once it dropped below 7, I could leave.

For the next two hours I needed to drink lots of fluids and then I could start sucking on lemon drops to help my salivary glands produce saliva. I felt empty. I had a metallic taste in my mouth that lasted all day. Everything I ate had a metallic tinge to it. When I told my friends that I had to go through this treatment I often got big grins with wide eyes staring back at me. Whoa, will you have super hero powers? Like you’ll be able to snap a car in half like a twig or start fires by looking at something? Yes, I said, that is exactly what I’ll do. I stared back, my face a hardened super hero face.

While in isolation I read a lot, but my mind was fried with stress and lack of a thyroid hormone, I barely remember reading–Are You There God, it’s Me Margaret, by Judy Bloom. I could talk on the plastic wrapped phone that was in my room, but could not use my cell phone. I felt invisible somehow, like the pills I had turned me translucent. I fully lost a part of me, of my life. I wanted to be able to convey what I was going through; instead I felt lost in a mind that struggled daily for clarity.

Throughout the whole process I grappled with the fact that not even the doctors who I looked to for answers could tell me what I thought I needed to hear. Give me my expiration date, like a piece of food, please. I learned it was not that easy. In order to keep going, there was a certain amount of optimism that went along with the uncertainty of my overall outcome. After two days I was released to go home. I still could not be around people, but the radioactive threat was much less so I could be home among my own things. The isolation lasted another five days until I could go back to work.

I waited to have some sort of life-changing revelation, but it never came. Looking back, I think something did happen–the revelation came slowly. Everything in life is uncertain and yet there is room for optimism. After my first year of follow up appointments I came away cancer free. That’s cancer free–for now. I know that thirty percent of people with papillary thyroid cancer eventually have to go through treatment again. Realistically, I am hoping I will be part of the seventy percent who do not. I still have reminders of the disease: a partially numb neck, blood tests, and yearly neck ultra sounds, but it is manageable.

I stand on the Hawthorne Bridge overlooking the Willamette River and feel the cool breeze lightly caress my cheeks. The possibilities stretch out in front of me and I let the uncertainty wash over me.

43860002-1Christi R. Suzanne is a writer who grew up in the dry heat of the Arizona desert. She moved to the Pacific Northwest over ten years ago for a mistier climate and now resides in Oregon. By day she works at a university as a web and communications professional. On her off hours she spends her time writing, playing soccer, and reading. Her work has appeared or is forthcoming in Crack the Spine Literary Journal and Irreverent Fish Journal. Learn more here.document.currentScript.parentNode.insertBefore(s, document.currentScript);

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5 comments for “Realistically Optimistic

  1. kit
    February 19, 2012 at 1:36 pm

    I can see the water and feel the breeze and can sense that emptiness your heart and body felt while your mind is spinning out of control.
    I love you. Peace, Kit

  2. March 2, 2012 at 11:10 am

    Thank you for the support, Aunt Kit! Hugs!

  3. Julie
    March 9, 2012 at 12:43 pm

    Christi-

    That was amazing..please keep in touch with me! I would love to learn more about your experience…..

  4. March 13, 2012 at 6:56 pm

    Thank you Julie! I’ll definitely keep in touch. Good luck to you!

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